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Hi Everyone, 


I’ve recently received so many notes from you all through the private website address.  I’m doing my best to keep up and answer as many as I can.  

Many have to do with the recent shootings…heartbreaking.  The rest are about those in various phases of purging and RightSIZING their lifestyles, embolden to make personal changes at a time when our country is so divided and immobile. 


As many who were around during the ten years I...

Now you’re ready to make some real solid choices about who you were, versus who you now want to be. It’s time to begin letting you’re creativity open up even further now.  Part of its blooming process comes with a new sense of empathy you’ve perhaps misplaced, faith you’ve lost (or felt abandoned by) and self-forgiveness you my have denied yourself (and as a result, others too). 

This new life can be anything you decide…as long as YOU and only you make the re-ch...

Stuff for the new life....wait! What Life? 

By now, it’s like…you don’t need to tell me!  I get it!

Yep far more comes up in the purging process then we’d ever imagine.  Bottom line: It’s actually not only about the stuff at all. Because what comes up the most, is fear.  Not like, “Carrie and the bucket of blood,” kind of fear, no it’s an “Oh s**t, what am I actually doing this for?”  Or,  “I can’t face this right now.”

Face what...

June 26, 2019

What stays and what goes is determined by which life you’re willing to commit to.

The purging process continues now that you’ve hopefully removed the obvious stuff that you know full well you won’t ever use again or worse haven’t even seen in well over a year…if not longer.  You’ve probably freed up a bit of space by now – just enough to glimpse how much more room you have then you thought.   

Hopefully your getting into the rhythm of starting to get those full t...

Our series that helps you live more intentionally & authentically continues. It's time to finally put quality of life FIRST! 

At this juncture of purging, you’ve now gotten rid of the obvious stuff that you know had more to do with your relationship with time and procrastination rather than indecision. It’s the stuff you kept or stashed because getting it all the way out of your life and beyond your front door seemed like…well just a huge a pain in the ass....

In the current purging series I’ve tried to help articulate why this (and projects like these) are so vital to our human wellbeing especially at this historical juncture in time.  

I know that some will skim read it. In so doing, chances are they won’t make the connection between a process like purging and it’s deeper purpose of helping to revitalize something far more critical to our human well being…personal creativity.  

Nevertheless, I wanted to put in the effort...

Physical Clutter = Emotional Apathy

Let’s review...shall we? 

So you’ve been through you’re home tour twice now.  You’ve seen the collected stuff first, through the eyes of a stranger to determine if the narrative still matches who YOU are now—today.  

You’ve then been through your home yet another time with the rose colored glasses off.  Just remember, if purging was completely unemotional, than everyone would do it, and do it often. That’s why it’s not about simply r...

Phase 2: Observe & Admit: Discover Past Choices

Now you’ve been through your home as a “stranger”.  You’ve seen it (and everything in it) through those objective eyes.  Well, it’s time to do it all over again through your own eyes.  GULP, Deep breath!    

In conjunction with the notes you took about who lives in the house, constructed purely by the things you saw there, it’s time to see if the narrative you pieced together matches you!...

Phase: 1 Detach & Spy:  Part 2 Espionage

So that happened!  If you started Phase One: Part One - Yay!   If you’re doing a “let’s don’t and say we did” thing?  That’s better than nothing.  At least your reading about a process can inform and bring the idea of personal reinvention to the forefront.  That’s still a positive start.  

Before we move on to the next phase, I’d like to address some of new thoughts that we know come...

April 28, 2019

The Life-changing 8-part Series, Begins NOW! 

Phase 1 Detach & Spy:  Part 1 Espionage 

Ok everyone…here we go!   

So the bad news about phase one of the RightSIZING process is that it can feel like starting yet anther diet.  Ugh! You have high hopes but deep down, very little faith.  You decide not to broadcast that you’re going to try to lose weight again as a precaution to failing AGAIN.  This time, you tell yourself, “It’s a quiet thing. It’s between me an...

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